yeah so i deleted our pics off fb but i still can’t bring myself to do it on my phone
like it’s 2 years worth of us our pets the fosters too every photo’s got some kinda memory tied to it
it hurts seeing them but they also make me smile. idk what to do honestly i’m mad confused. it’s been a month now and he’s gone quiet. we’re still kinda in touch tryna be friends i guess..
plus he’s got my cat so i’ll have to see him eventually anyway
Last updated on:2025-04-10T08:18:25+05:30
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Sometimes it takes time before we can muster up courage to let go of past memories cuz our mind just doesn't agree and that's Totally fine
May be have them in your phone till you are really ready to let them go
i put my photos on a separate memory storage. when I become more healed i can look back and see if I still want them
You’re navigating this breakup in your own way and that’s okay. Just remember you’re allowed to prioritize yourself.
Two years is a long time those memories don’t just disappear overnight. Allow yourself space to grieve and reflect.
Seeing him again because of your cat might stir up emotions but just focus on staying true to what you need right now.
It’s tough when someone who was your everyday person suddenly goes quiet. Give yourself grace you’re processing a lot.
There’s no rush to delete the photos. If they still bring you comfort let them stay until you’re truly ready.
Holding onto memories is part of healing. It’s okay to feel conflicted grief and nostalgia exist side by side.
i could never bring myself to delete anything
i’m actually glad i didn’t.
i wanted to even planned on it.. but i just couldn’t. i know it sounds kinda backwards
but yeah i still have every single text from every number. every email pic video even the voicemails. if you feel like you need to delete it all, go for it. but if you can’t then don’t force it