I've gotten used to checking his messages every single day multiple times a day

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I've gotten used to checking his messages every single day multiple times a day. it's day 2 of no contact. I've been trying to keep myself busy so I don't get the urge to check, but all the moments in between I've been cycling through my other apps and hobbies... its hard when you created so much space for someone and now they're not in your life anymore

Last updated on:2025-04-12T08:01:42+05:30

Comments (9)

KeepitSaral
KeepitSaral 11 mths ago

I hope you feel better soon.Keep at it , trust me it gets better soon.Priortizing yourself again is a process but it can take place, just stay at it

Bakergirl
Bakergirl 11 mths ago

You're rewiring your heart and mind to prioritize your well being that's a huge step forward, even if it doesn’t feel like it yet.

Oddiee
Oddiee 11 mths ago

Those moments of missing them are natural but they're also proof of how deeply you cared. You’ll carry that love into the amazing person you’re becoming.

UnknownWR
UnknownWR 11 mths ago

You're teaching yourself to let go, and that takes incredible strength. Keep going, even when it feels hard you deserve this peace.

shotcup4874
shotcup4874 11 mths ago

It's tough when someone has been such a big part of your life but remember this space you're creating is for you. It's where your peace and growth begin.

LKnoba
LKnoba 11 mths ago

You're so strong for even starting no contact. Day by day you're building yourself back up and it's okay to feel the heaviness right now it means you're healing.

letitgo_user
letitgo_user 11 mths ago

stay strong. as more time goes by you will feel stronger.

HealingVibes
HealingVibes 11 mths ago

It's understandable that old habits linger, especially when someone held such a significant place. Use this time to reinvest that energy back into yourself and watch new growth blossom. Every moment you resist is a victory.👍🤗

callmemaybee
callmemaybee 11 mths ago

It's ok to miss them. It is ok to cry. It's ok to feel the way you are feeling. This pain you are feeling is akin to an actual physical ache or pain. So don't be hard on yourself. You are doing great even though it is hard. Take care of yourself. Sending healing vibes your way ✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️