My boyfriend has pics and videos with his exes all over his social media like memories of good times. He never deletes them and even reposts them sometimes. He doesn’t see an issue with it but I don’t use social media that way. Personally I’d never keep anything from an ex. So is it weird or disrespectful? Or is it just harmless like enjoying old memories? Honestly who wants to relive moments with someone else no matter how long it’s been?
Last updated on:2025-04-19T04:33:40+05:30
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maybe he hasn't healed from it and tries to relive the past in some way he needs to heal.
disrespectful but at least you kno about it. Its not right I would talk to him about it. stay positive ✨️ 🙏
Well off Course it is something that will make you feel uncomfortable and insecure, Till the time you can ask him why is he so interested in someone he is not with in reality.May be he still hasn't healed from him break up with her and in that case he needs to look into the same
That's a whole vibe I don't get. Like those pics were yeeted the second it ended for me
That's a whole vibe I don't get. Like those pics were yeeted the second it ended for me
Normal and acceptable but it won’t make you heal.
I'm genuinely confused by the idea of posting about someone from a past relationship, especially one that ended years ago while you're in a current one. Can anyone help me understand this? I'm looking for perspective not necessarily advice on how to feel better
@Marianiga I wouldn't want someone like that, you need to get a hang of yourself and be done with your past to enjoy the present, hope you're okay girl
I'd be really upset by that. Keeping old pictures up is already a bit off unless there's an extremely good reason. But reposting them? That's a hard no from me.
Is this really acceptable behavior? Do you feel respected in this relationship?
It kinda depends right? If they're a chronic poster ex pics are whatever. But if they barely post those ex pics are way too visible and should be hidden
I ditched social media like six years ago. That meant I didn't go digging to delete old ex stuff. If it randomly showed up yeah I'd probably delete it especially if I had a girlfriend. Without one maybe I'd keep some for the memories depending on what they were.
i think leaving the posts up is fine tbh..but reposting them is kinda weird ngl
yeah it’s mad weird and lowkey disrespectful. but most people will probably just see it as normal tbh
i, personally, don't see an issue with never deleting them especially if he never talks to that person again. but reposting them kinda concerns me 🤔 . obviously this is upsetting you. even if he doesn't delete them, out of respect for you, he should take them off the public eye and not repost, and assure you he doesn't still have feelings for that person. another thing, does he post pictures of you?
Yeah the reposting is throwing me off. What would you do in this situation? How would you even bring this up without sounding insecure?