I shouldn't have agreed to contact him after a month, I know I can still change my mind and block him so he can't contact me. but it's only been 13 days since we broke up and I have this sort of anticipation, or anxiety, about talking to him again. kinda wish i could delete every memory he has of me in his mind, thinking of him maybe thinking of me is messing up my mind. and why should i care if he sees me as a villain? I dont paint him in a good light anymore either! and if we never talk again why should his opinion of me mean anything? đ¤ I'm not a bad person I'm just a little messed up, I'm clingy and anxious, but personally I don't think I overdo it
Last updated on:2025-04-22T12:08:38+05:30
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Youâre not a villain and neither is he sometimes things just donât work out and that doesnât mean either of you are bad people.
Thinking about whether heâs thinking of you is exhausting but thatâs part of processing the breakup. With time the weight of it will get lighter.
Breakups mess with our minds in ways we donât expect. Itâs okay to feel conflicted and itâs okay to not have all the answers right now.
The urge to control how they see you is so real but at the end of the day their perception doesnât define who you are. You know your own heart.
You donât owe him anything and you have every right to change your mind about speaking again. Prioritizing your own peace is the most important thing right now.
Hey Calm down, Don't be so hard on yourself.It takes a bit to get out of a relationship.and don't be worried about him considering you good or bad.we want to be good in front of them that's why we find their opinion of us important but it's not so important anyways.Take a deep breath and take some time off from this and give yourself space to breathe.
tbh who cares if he thinks ur the villain? ur not. ur just someone who loved hard and is now trying to move on. ur allowed to feel clingy, a bit messy. Thatâs human. ur doing okay. One day at a time. đ
first of all a Big hug. Ur not a bad person, ur just going through a lot rn. Feeling anxious or missing him doesnât make u weak. thats totally normal after a breakup. block him if thatâs what feels right. u donât owe him anything.
as days go by i hope for you that the memory loses its sheen and its just a dull ache and then nothing at all. in the meanwhile you have to go through this ache. the only way is through it.