Okay so my dude just dumped me last Saturday. The way he did it tho? Painful AF. Texted me while I was on a trip after four years then ghosted me wants zero contact. I'm wrecked last time I saw him at the airport he was all sweet saying he'd miss me
Had to come back early 'cause he was watching my dog and our cats. Changed my flight paid mad taxi money and he didn't even care I landed late just left me at the airport. Asked for help and he was like "you got the cash pay for a taxi" which was $80 plus over $100 for the flight change and another $80 taxi where I was visiting. He just didn't care.
He doesn't want me back at our place gotta accept it's his family's. All my stuff my whole life is there but he doesn't care. He's keeping our two cats too no other option and that's breaking me.
Don't get it. Reason was our relationship stuff been bad lately with our mental health. I get it but ditching me like trash? Feels like I was just used. All the stuff I bought him for the house is gone forever. All the things I did for his back pain like building furniture myself so he wouldn't hurt.
Bought a dishwasher cause his back hurt doing dishes. Got an air fryer so he could cook and eat better cause he can't cook. We had a huge TV too. Lost everything and he doesn't care just tossed me out. Gotta accept I lost a lot of money and things and just leave.
Completely broken he blocked me can only talk to his sweet mom to get my stuff back luckily.
This whole thing made me try to unalive myself and when I got back from the hospital he texted me saying what I did was unforgivable and he wants NOTHING to do with me. He got mad at me for wanting to die makes no sense. Maybe it's just sadness but I can't understand how he handled this breakup.
Can't believe the guy I thought was my soulmate my life partner is doing this. Kicked me out (staying at my dad's) took my cats made me lose a ton of stuff and money cause I bought so much to take care of him 'cause I wanted to help.
God knows if I'll ever heal wanna stay single forever rn. I'm shattered.
Last updated on:2025-04-25T01:00:29+05:30
Comments (6)
It sound extremely horrible.Hope you get the Love and support you need right now.Please stay close to your family or a close friend.Dont be shy asking for help.Try to get as much stuff as you can back since that was your hard earned money .Take care
what an ass! you deserve so much better. I'm sorry you're going through this
Heartbreak can feel like the absolute worst especially when someone you were super into just ghosts you without even caring but even when things feel super dark healing is possible like when I met my boyfriend on Chat I realized real love isn’t about just giving everything and getting nothing back it’s about both people caring and respecting each other. You gave so much of yourself your time your money your feels but love should never be just one person giving and no matter how much it stings rn this pain won’t be your whole vibe. Right now just focus on getting your strength back being around people who actually care about you and remembering love shouldn’t make you feel like trash the right person will never make you feel like you’re not important they’ll cherish you and choose you every day just like I found in my own relationship.
thanks for the support Started therapy today and getting back on my meds Gonna be a whole journey tho
Nah fr go to court for the cats. Hit up the cops to go with you he can't just keep your stuff. If he yeeted your things bring that up in court and anything you bought he needs to pay you back for or give to you.
Lowkey mention court to him first see if he gets his act together.
Nah can't do that they ain't registered legally and he'll prob just register them in his name to block me. Anyway wouldn't do him dirty like that I'd feel bad for him being away from them. Sounds dumb but that's how I'm feeling rn.