so today my bf just broke up with me, its actually my first time going through a breakup, we had only been together for 4 weeks but for me it felt like a really long time, the actual reason why we broke up was because I had really strict parents and he didn't want to be with me because of that, I begged him to stay and I told him that I would try and speak to my parents about our relationship, but he still wasn't happy, I tired everything just to make him stay but he still left me, he said it's all my fault for the breakup, but what hurts the most is that he already found a new girl immediately after
Last updated on:2025-04-26T14:52:52+05:30
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Seeing him move on so fast feels like a punch to the gut but healing is about focusing on yourself not on what he does next.
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Strict parents can make things complicated but a relationship should be about understanding not ultimatums. You deserve patience and support.
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It’s painful when someone moves on so quickly but that says more about them than it does about you. Give yourself time to heal.
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You tried everything to make it work but relationships should be a two-way effort. You deserve someone who values you not someone who leaves when things get tough.
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Breakups hurt especially your first one. Don’t blame yourself you deserve someone willing to work through challenges with you.
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I'm even happy for you to not spend so much time with a shitty guy, it will take you some time, and you'll be okay, please allow your emotions to come out, please let yourself grieve, and please let yourself grow
The question remains Sometimes that does your partner want to celebrate life with you as joy himself or just considers you another instrument in life to get rid of his or her boredom.If it's the latter it would be easier for them to move on.Now the only thing is are you ready to do the same and off course it's easier said than done.My heart goes out to you.Hope you feel faster and better
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i would say dont even waste your time crying over him..he doesnt seem sincere.
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not gonna lie, that gives me the impression he's been talking to her for a while and used the strict parent thing as cop-out. I'm sure your parents being strict was part of the reason, but to use that as the whole reason seems sus. i dont know if any of that is true, im just speculating. but either way, you deserve better, you deserve someone who won't give up on you. it might take a while to heal, but it'll get better, and when it does I've no doubt you'll find someone right for you (if you even want another person at that point)
yeah i kinda agree..he is being shady and you deserve better
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