tw for pedo/grooming found out a new guy i was talking to was giving pedo vibes. she was 16 when she met him and he was 26 and he waited until she was 18 to officially start dating, they're still together and she's 21 now. I waited until nighttime to block him because I was scared he'd try to be a creepy stalker (I met him online like a week ago). well, I was right; even though I blocked him on all the platforms I talked to him on, he remembered I have a Reddit and created an account to reach out to me! wtf bro, when someone blocks you, take a hint! anyway, I don't care about losing him. I am a little worried he'll keep being stalkery. i usually can catch quickly people like him who give me bad vibes. but I'm mostly disappointed that I attract creeps like him, most people who are interested in me are creepy (not all of course, I've had a few decent people). logically, i know it's not my fault these people are creepy, but lowkey it makes me feel like there's something wrong with me because i can't connect with normal people (when i mean normal, i mean, the non-pedo/violent/only want sexual things from me types)
Last updated on:2025-04-25T15:01:04+05:30
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It’s hard not to internalize these experiences but don’t let them make you doubt yourself.
It’s hard not to internalize these experiences but don’t let them make you doubt yourself.
It’s frustrating when people don’t take a hint but you’re handling this with courage. You’re not responsible for their behavior.
It’s unsettling when someone doesn’t respect boundaries but you’re strong for taking action to protect yourself.
Creeps like him are the problem not you. The fact that you can spot bad vibes quickly is a strength not a flaw. 👍
You did the right thing by blocking him his behavior is beyond inappropriate and your safety comes first.
You 100% did the right thing blocking him. this dude sounds borderline creepy and his behaviour screams stalker straight up. fr, it’s not your fault these types show up. dont beat yourself up and hey there are good guys out there looking for a real connection. dont lose heart.
good you trusted your gut.blocking him was the right move. Him making a new Reddit just to message? That’s seriously weird. And honestly, it’s not on you that creeps show up. They go after kind, open people hoping they won’t notice the red flags and but you did. stick to your gut feel. stay away.
ikr.feel i'm the same attracting all kind of weird creatures like they just stick to me and its low key depressing. so i mostly feel very anxious when i start to meet someone new and i hate the red flags when i start seeing them and sometimes i just go ahead anyway