I broke up with my soulmate basically and it's hitting different. (She's straight and like I'm lesbian.)
I can't imagine feeling that way for anyone else and my camera roll is giving me the ick. All our old stuff makes me wanna yeet my phone and car rides alone are just cry sessions now.
Got a lot of other stuff going on too and it's been two months but it's just now really sinking in.
Like I don't have anyone else who makes me feel safe and now it feels like everything's falling apart and no one's there to catch me because the one person who could help me keep it together is gone. I just want her to hug me and tell me it'll be okay and help me through everything.
I know it's selfish but this is hard AF. How do you even get over them? Like your person person? Feels like I just won't.
Last updated on:2025-04-28T23:11:37+05:30
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I am sure you'll feel better, it seems like you have anxious attachment style and you are just seeking validation from that one person who isnt as available. But trust me, comfort is an emotion that you'll feel with someone else too, it's NOT a person. Be hopeful in being able to find and seek it somewhere else. Reclaim the energy and redefine what comfort really means to you. Lots of love
You loved deeply and that’s a beautiful thing—even if it hurts now. When the pain fades the strength and love you carry forward will remain.
Feeling like you won’t move on is normal but one day this pain will just be part of your story—not the whole thing.
It’s not selfish to want comfort from the person who was always there. But even though she’s gone you will find that sense of safety again little by little.
Breakups are painful enough but when it’s someone who felt like a soulmate the grief runs deeper.
Losing your person like that hits differently. It’s okay to grieve what felt like home to you. Healing takes time, but you’re stronger than you think.
you can get through this!
thanks..i hope so
Nah fr give it time everyone says they got no time but that's cap. Loads of good stuff will hit you eventually.
Take care of yourself and you'll def vibe with someone else again... gotta meet em first tho.
Thank you so much I appreciate it