me and my ex used to use telegram (its an app) to talk, but also so did me and my bff. after my break up I asked my bff if we can use a different app so i wouldn't feel compelled to obsess over old messages from him. I have a tablet that I also have telegram on and i will save stuff. I accidentally saw that my ex deleted his telegram account (we're still friends on discord), but I was put in shock. i dont know how to feel about this. how would yall feel? I have 10 days to decide if I wanna reach out to him, or accept him if he reaches out to me
Last updated on:2025-04-29T12:42:15+05:30
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If he reaches out think about what you truly need closure reconnection or just acknowledgment of the past.
You already made the choice to create distance for your own healing.
The fact that you’re questioning whether to reach out shows a lot of self-awareness. Take your time before making a decision. you owe yourself peace first.
It’s tough when a small thing triggers big feelings but this could also be a sign that you’re moving toward closure even if it doesn’t feel like it yet.
Seeing that account gone probably hit you harder than expected it’s normal to feel a mix of emotions when something final like that happens.
question is do you see yourself with him in the future 5 years from now..if yes then you are wasting time... if not then just work on your new life.
see if you are holding off talking to him cos some ego got hurt and not reaching out its a different thing. Ask your self that. is it ego or is it really not working out between the two of you fr.
i would have felt flaterred though sad... sad to see the telegram go but happy that its of no use to my ex anymore and it was only for me...it might feel like he is giving up and that hurts.. so its a mixed reaction