Yo my ex was lowkey making me think I was losing it. Like anyone else been through this? At first this dude was OBSESSED. Dropping the L-bomb on date one marriage talk on date two. Love bombed me HARD with all these compliments. Felt sus cuz he didn't even know me but was acting all in love. Gave me all his time and attention for like a month then it faded. Texts got dry barely wanted to hang. We were long distance then but gonna be together soon. Then BAM outta nowhere he wants to break up blaming his mental health saying he was depressed and dragging me down. This was when my fam was going through it which he knew. We were broken up for three months then he texts wanting to try again. Stupid me I said yes. Back to the love bombing didn't really deal with why we broke up before. I was still hurt from the first time. Every time I brought it up he'd get mad saying it's the past just trust him now. Promised things would be better he'd treat me right build trust again. Three months later texts got even drier never made plans. I questioned it he'd brush it off get mad. Always saying why you gotta make me look bad? I wasn't but if I brought up anything he'd play the victim. Saying he was a disappointment better off not existing borderline scary stuff. Also he'd only talk to me in a baby voice super weird. So four months in he dumps me AGAIN saying our lives are going different ways maybe later we'd get back together. A week later he's got a whole new girlfriend. A WEEK! Now he's treating her amazing big trips nice dates stuff he never did with me. Help me understand this mess? Is he just a bad person?
Last updated on:2025-05-15T01:26:38+05:30
Comments (7)
love bombing is the worst. it makes u feel like there is some hope in that person because I love them. I had a similar situation with a guy. https://vm.tiktok.com/ZNdMK4YWd/ this explains my story in one tiktok
hey I guess you already know the answer as of now since he has tried to play you so many times now.Its a pattern he is following suggest more like he has his own things he needs to deal with.Hopefully your heart sees through this game
Talking to you in a baby voice but refusing to have serious conversations? Yeah… that’s weird behavior.
A person who truly cares doesn’t bounce between love bombing and emotional neglect. His actions were inconsistent for a reason.
A week later and he’s treating someone new like royalty? Sounds like he thrives in the honeymoon phase and dips when things get real.
Anyone who makes you doubt your sanity in a relationship? Huge red flag. You’re not losing it he was just playing games.
That whole cycle sounds exhausting you were caught in a loop where he kept pulling you back in without ever fixing things.