Okay so had this chill two-year thing with this dude. Like it was actually healthy we'd compromise talk things out fix stuff and grow. Good two years for real.
I was in my career glow-up era and he was still studying for his license. Didn't wanna bug him so we'd only see each other like once a month or every other month depending on his schedule. My friends were sus but I trusted him he seemed decent. Supported him trusted him got it. We had different goals but we were both supportive.
Two months before his exam we had this little argument 'cause I invited him to my work Christmas party wanted him to feel included and meet my work peeps. He wasn't sure then said no and I kinda snapped at him for not making three hours. Then he said I was too clingy and he felt suffocated. Said I deserved better and why was I still with someone who wasn't sure about me anymore? That kinda blindsided me and hurt. Asked if there was another girl he said no. He was annoyed and just ended it.
Texted him sorry the next day. He didn't even see it. Ignored me for a week straight. Then I unsent those cause it felt like I was chasing and something was def off. Thought he ghosted. So I went no contact didn't wanna bother him while he was studying.
After his exam (two months later) I reached out hoping to talk. Still ignored me and unfriended me. He never posts but then he was posting a LOT making sure everyone knew he was single. Hurt not gonna lie but I told myself he was acting out. My friends were mad but I still defended him just wanted peace.
Waited another two months still nothing. Then my friends told me he had a new girl. Someone from his study group. I kinda knew she had a crush on him when we were together probably his friends teased them. They have the same interests good for them not for me tho. Found out yesterday they made it public.
Luckily not reacting 'cause my healing's pretty far along and I know they'd eat that up. Would be lying if I said I was okay but I'm not not okay. Don't care about them at this point the disrespect to me and even his friends who knew. Just feel sorry for myself. Had a little relapse but it's not as bad as before.
Just want this to be over! Was questioning myself but I hope they're happy and HE'S happy with his choices. Karma's gonna do its thing.
Last updated on:2025-05-18T03:31:01+05:30
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feic him. if someone is gonna treat you like that then you are better off now girl xx
there's people on the comment saying he didn't cheat but you know in your heart he disrespected you same thing. you are in a better position now because of this. I know it's not easy to see how bit he did you a favour
If you weren't official then it's not really cheating.
Yeah facts we were a thing for two years back then Well..
Nah fam that ain't cheating you guys weren't even together anymore tho
But like isn't that low-key micro cheating tho? We were a thing while this other girl was flirting and he had to really think if he even wanted to stay with me or just ditch me for her.
@rossave so like if your bf was getting attention and flirting back that's def emotional cheating. People always think cheating is just physical but it starts way before that emotional cheating is what leads to physical stuff or him dipping for someone else.
@Juliamoha first off sorry you're going through it but like he didn't actually cheat. And micro cheating isn't even a thing it's either cheating or it's not and that sucks but it wasn't cheating. He was still a total jerk to you tho for sure.
@Nigge8475 Lowkey wish there was no cheating involved tho. But maybe that's why we broke up he was weighing his options or something idk. I saw it as cheating cuz this girl was in the picture and he thought she was cool cuz they had stuff in common. Also saw his bestie's IG sayin bro code so probs that was it. We were totally fine and sweet in the morning then boom broken up at night after our fight
@rossave Yeah no cap that's straight up cheating if you're seriously checking out other people while you're with someone
@classygirl1 Yeah fr being straight up with their partner would've been way better than lying tho