my breakup is hitting different

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my breakup is hitting different. This pain is intense. I don't get crushes easily and what we had was wild off the charts. Usually I bounce back way faster.
It ended 'cause of stuff we couldn't control.
I'm actually scared I won't feel that again. Like plenty of good guys out there but none have that same vibe. Can't find that chemistry that deep connection. Took me years to find it seriously.
Anyone been through this and actually found a second twin flame? Not just another relationship but someone you felt the same about?
I've had so many breakups but this one has me feeling like I'll never be the same.

Last updated on:2025-05-22T17:44:07+05:30

Comments (15)

Justguy
Justguy 9 mths ago

Nah I don't think that's possible. You'll probably find someone new and build something serious and maybe even stronger but reliving that exact same feeling? Impossible imo

saveheart
saveheart 9 mths ago

Im in the same boat as you rn but my mum found her person at 50 and that kinda motivates me

Innerpeace
Innerpeace 9 mths ago

Yes I did. Just move forward!

Niggasg
Niggasg 9 mths ago

I'm going through the same thing

sadreflect
sadreflect 9 mths ago

Bet. This second one is straight up 10x better than my last. Remember when you learn from the first and level up it's like the new person just reflects that. Keep your chin up 💪

Miniorsad
Miniorsad 9 mths ago

Been there exactly same timeline almost. Found another one didn't work out again but it's possible. Just keep working on you

DooDOO
DooDOO 9 mths ago

Nah there's no 'the one'... it's always just 'the one for right now' ya feel

theRain
theRain 9 mths ago

Totally. I've fallen in love like 3 times. Every time felt like 'the one' but that's just an illusion for real. You can be super compatible and love each other but things just don't work out for whatever reason. Breaking up means they weren't the one. You'll find them later I promise

siddavow
siddavow 9 mths ago

Nah I used to think that but this time feels totally different

theRain
theRain 9 mths ago

@siddavow Nah that's totally normal to feel like that. Every breakup for me hit like that too and it took forever to get over each one. Thought I'd never get over it ever. But like that feeling eventually goes away I promise it just takes a long time.

sadbeast
sadbeast 9 mths ago

Did I find a second 'the one'? Nah. But did I find another girl I love? Yeah. Didn't work out but I know I'll find the right one eventually for real.

rossave
rossave 9 mths ago

Hope we both do fr!

MSZA03A
MSZA03A 9 mths ago

No but I found better.

rough254
rough254 9 mths ago

Dude I get it 100%. It's so hard to wrap your head around ever feeling normal again but you totally will

chickpia
chickpia 9 mths ago

Hey felt that. I was convinced I'd never find that vibe with anyone else. Dealt with that heartbrek