Was so obsessed with my ex like moved states away from my family to be with him. Was there for him when his family was fighting when his dad passed. Felt like he was my whole world wasn't letting anything stop us and thought he felt the same. But this past January he didn't feel it anymore. Still don't know why wish I had real closure but never happened. Finally cut contact to help with the pain thought I was getting better but then had a dream with him in it and now I'm back to square one. Wanna be back with him talk to him feel comforted again but he doesn't want me anymore. Idk what to do. Still love him but feel ashamed about it. Just wanna move on
Last updated on:2025-05-24T03:53:14+05:30
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There is nothing to be ashamed out feeling Love for someone. It's totally normal specially when you have been so close to someone.Healing is a journey that takes continuous and. conscious effort sometimes.Dont loose hope and keep going ahead with No Contact
I miss him even though they hurt me. It’s frustrating
I used to check their profile wondering if they missed me too. Eventually I realized that knowing wouldn’t change anything.
Dreams of them mess with me too. Just when I think I’m healing I wake up feeling like I’m starting over. But each day of no contact proves I’m stronger than I think.
I spent months hoping they’d regret leaving, hoping they’d reach out. But they never did. The hardest part was accepting that someone I loved deeply didn’t feel the same way anymore.
Dreams can reopen wounds we thought were closing. I’ve had nights where I wake up missing them all over again. But trust me each passing day of no contact is another step toward freedom.
I kept waiting for closure thinking it would fix me. But the truth is closure never comes the way we want it to. Sometimes the only closure we get is accepting that they chose to leave.
I moved cities for someone who swore they saw a future with me. When they left I felt abandoned. Healing started when I realized I was the one who needed to find myself again.
I gave everything to someone who made me believe we had forever. When they walked away it felt like I lost a part of myself. Healing is slow but one day I know I’ll wake up without missing them. Hope same for you.
Dreams can bring back emotions. you thought were fading but they don’t define your healing only you do.
Hey no shame in feeling this way it's totally normal. If you ask him to talk and he says no there's not much you can do there. My ex said we could talk then later she ghosted me. Can't force her to talk I just wish she knew how bad I feel. Don't even know why I want her to know.
Nah that's fair we still talk low-key but I think he's just scared to let me go as a friend. The whole thing's just confusing me