a week ago I text his friend who he is no longer friends with and asked to be friends. i was very drunk and regret it badly. I've been sober now and I reached out to him to say I was drunk and i didn't mean it it was a ridiculous thing to say. why am I worrying so much about this. it's been a month. I don't want to get back with him I suppose I don't want to hurt him or him to think bad of me. I don't know why when all he did was hurt me when we were together.
Last updated on:2025-05-26T22:15:03+05:30
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The person who hurt you doesnโt deserve space in your mind anymore. Focus on the future youโll be happier there.
uh know I used to cringe over small things like this but I realized I was only hanging onto them because I hadnโt fully let go yet. You will.
thank you ๐๐ผ ๐
I know the feeling of wanting to control how they see you but what they think doesnโt matter anymore. Free yourself from that weight.
that's exactly what it is, that if somehow he sees me only as good he will regret how badly he treated but it doesn't matter because I don't want him
I used to obsess over what my ex thought of me even though they hurt me. But one day I realized why should I care about someone who never cared enough for me?
thank you, I needed to hear that ๐
Iโve sent those regretful texts too convinced they meant more than they did. Truth is itโs not that deep let it go like youโre learning to let go of him.
Thank you, people are great on this app ๐
Hey it's really ok what you did, You were drunk and may be hurting.the good thing is that you are still a caring person .You can own whatever you did and now it's gone
thank you ๐๐ผ๐
we do things we regret.. just own it yes you did something you are not proud of if that's how you are feeling..and move on..you are human... incidents such as this dont define you.. dont worry about it
ah thank you ๐ it's out of my hands now and hopefully I'll never see either of them ever again ๐
@DreamAndJoy9 yeah that's how you need yourself thinking.dont mull over things. regret is a waste of time especially cos it changes nothing in the past. tc. all the best