how can I tell if my ex is breadcrumbing or if he really wants to give me another change??? he says he misses me, he said we will talk but not everyday until he heals and said slowly if he sees change we will talk more, he doesn't wanna get hurt again. he reached out 2 times so far. he reached out Monday the 19th (call)and Saturday the 24th(text) . but we weren't talking for a month before this. I'm not sure..
Last updated on:2025-05-28T15:15:32+05:30
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Healing isn’t an excuse for emotional distance. If he’s using I need to heal as a reason to keep you hanging that’s a sign he’s not ready. And you deserve someone who is.
I know you miss him but ask yourself this if the roles were reversed would he tolerate this uncertainty? Or would he expect full commitment?
If healing was truly the priority he wouldn’t need to see change in you first. He’d be working on himself, proving he’s worth trusting again not making you prove yourself.
The hard truth? If he was genuinely scared of losing you he’d be making an effort every single day not just checking in sporadically while keeping you guessing.
If he’s setting conditions for your change while making excuses for his distance, he’s not ready for real love he’s controlling the situation while keeping you emotionally attached.
I used to analyze every text every call wondering if they were serious. But a person who truly wants another chance doesn’t ration communication like a reward they show up fully.
If he’s setting conditions for your change while making excuses for his distance he’s not ready for real love he’s controlling the situation while keeping you emotionally attached.
hoping their words meant they truly wanted to rebuild. But real change doesn’t come with conditions delays or vague promises. If they wanted to be with you they’d show it consistently.
Hey he seems to be unsure of what he wants
though since I do not know the back story so it may be possible to fix this just give him some time and at the same time don't keep yourself waiting.Move into your life and let the relationship come back to you if it does
he sounds unsure of himself. u should protect yourself from getting hurt again. if u want to give it another try, go ahead but just be prepared for an outcome that might hurt you