Tell me why he decided to say he's "pulling the plug" after 6 months of trying to make it work. He seemed very set on the fact he wasn't leaving and didn't want to lose me even with all the arguments and stress. He tells me he still loves me and then proceeds to hang up after 5 minutes of me talking, completely mute all my notifications, ghost me and ignore every single message, declines every single call, gets our parents involved and then just goes to sleep. I know he's not completely in the wrong but i'm devastated.
Last updated on:2026-04-09T03:18:16+05:30
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sometimes you need to let people have their space . yes it's not going to be easy but you constantly trying to reach out isn't going to make them want to talk to you instead it will be the complete opposite. try to give them some time
I recognise that niw but unfortunately I think he maybe gone for good if you look at my other posts
CONFUSED!
My FIANCE is leaving me after 7 days of me being back home from not being there for 3 months cause I had to go away for very short time, I can feel the love is completely different from the day I left to now. im Broken don't understand it and what happen we were supposed to get married once I got back but she changed her mind while I was away out of the blue.
i Can't sleep can't eat. HURTS WHEN YOUR STILL IN LOVE BUT THE OTHER PERSON FELL OUT OF IT. GOD BLESS EVERYONE.
wow it is so cathartic to hear someone struggle with such a similar experience and know I am not alone. I’m so sorry that happened to you; I’m here with you and rooting for you.
when you look back at how he handled it, does it feel like someone who was actually willing to work through things, or someone already halfway out
I think this hard ending should serve you as a lesson everything you think of him. If you miss him, just remind yourself how brutally he left you
that’s a brutal way to end things
I can relate, me and my ex were trying again to understand each other after a break, we met in the park like just a normal day and it ended, everything just came out. I thought we were progressing but sometimes you can never no how someone is feeling deep down. I know she still loves me and I'm sure he still loves you. Stay strong, but allow yourself to feel that pain otherwise there is nothing to heal from.
I'm in a similar position of yours.. he broke with me in August 2025, it took three months to feel okay again, then he came back. I thought he changed, he thought i changed too. At the beginning, everything was okay, then some problems with misunderstandings occured, and things were not so great. Distance didn't help, but when we were together things seemed to be good. I really thought things could work, but unexpectedly, yesterday told me he wasn't ready for a relationship, he wasn't okay to stay with me anymore. It's really painfull, cause i didn't thought he felt like this for so long, but i know i can just wait progress, feeling my pain and trying living without constantly feeling that maybe one day we will reconnect again
my ex did the same thing, shut everything off and left me talking into silence, that kind of switch really messes with your head