it's day 30 today. didn't think I would make it. I have a lot more clear insight to the whole relationship I was in and realised how manipulative he was. I thought he had potential and that's why I stayed and today I just realised how wrong I was. I realised that all he wanted was sex and he was gonna discard me afterwards. Everything makes sense now to what he said. but I just feel so stupid for falling for it and I feel so used. also I can not comprehend how someone can take a woman make her feel like there's a deep connection etc. but it's all fake because all they want is sex and they walk away after they got what they came for. (no pun intended). anyway someone tell me if this feeling of utter betrayal goes away. I feel like I should be over it 30 days later
Last updated on:2025-06-11T15:25:29+05:30
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You’re not alone in feeling this way and it’s okay to still hurt after 30 days. Healing isn’t linear but every day you’re moving closer to peace and self-love.
You’re already making progress by recognizing the manipulation and seeing the relationship for what it truly was. Healing takes time but you’re on the right path.
The feeling of betrayal doesn’t disappear overnight but it does fade. Focus on the lessons you’ve learned and the strength you’ve gained from this experience.
It’s hard to comprehend how someone can be so manipulative but remember it’s not a reflection of your worth. You’re strong for seeing the truth and moving forward.
I’ve felt used and discarded before and it took me time to stop blaming myself. You’re not alone in this and the betrayal will hurt less as you focus on your own growth.
I know how hard it is to accept that someone you cared for was manipulative. But this clarity you’ve gained is the first step toward healing.
It’s okay to feel hurt and used it’s a natural response to betrayal. But don’t blame yourself for believing in someone’s potential. You loved deeply and that’s never a mistake.
You’re not stupid for falling for it you trusted someone who didn’t deserve your trust. That says more about their character than yours. You’ll heal one day at a time.
same betrayal before and it’s devastating. But trust me the pain does fade with time. You’re already stronger than you think for making it to day 30. Keep going.
you are feeling duped basically and yes this feeling fades witg time, the anger fades with time. maybe you need to forgive and maybe practising forgiveness will make you feel a much bigger and wholesome person. so do that.