me and my bf were dating for like 6 months and honestly I was pretty in love. we met at church and he seemed so sweet and perfect. So when I found out one day he was texting his old middle school gf you can imagine how shook I was. I texted her to check what was happening and she said he never even mentioned me. I asked if anything happened and she told me they had made out a few days ago. I was super heartbroken and honestly even when I try to date now it's so hard to find a guy I feel I can trust. Does anyone know if this gets better over time?
Last updated on:2025-06-11T17:45:16+05:30
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I know how you feel. I was in a similar situatio and it made me question everythin about myself and relationship. But over time I realized that not everyone is like that. There are people out there who will value and respect you. Don’t give up on love it gets better.
hi i went through somethin similar and it was one of the hardest things I’ve ever dealt with. I felt like I’d neve be abl to trust anyone again. But over time I realized that his actions were a reflection of him not me. Youll heal sending you good vibes...
I was dating someone who seemed so genuine but I found out he was still talking to his ex. It felt like my whole world shattered. For a while I thought I’d never trust anyone again but over time I realized his actions didn’t define me. It does get better I promise. You’ll heal and find someone who truly values you.
That's tough. Been through it. It's like a full on betrayal trauma response. You gotta treat it like any other trauma. There are ways to cope and stuff that can help but just waiting it out isn't always effective.
Gotta heal that wound till you can trust another guy. Def hard but use this time to love yourself.