it's my 2nd day of no contact rule . he called me once this evening but I didn't even bother to answer the phone call. even though yesterday I felt like I am ok , it seems like I am feeling the pain tonight . I am controlling myself on messaging him . we have a 1 year old baby but then he abandoned us . he chose his daughters and I don't know if he will still take his former wife in here . I am in agony but I must accept it . I just don't understand why he still keeps on calling if the already chose them
Last updated on:2025-06-12T05:34:23+05:30
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to be honest I think it's a good idea to block him.. you can't heal if he keeps trying to creep back into Ur life just to take it away again. you deserve better you are so strong already
I tried it many times to block him then I will check on the spam if he call or not . So now , I'm trying not to block him so that I could regain my power .. it's like now he is the one calling and Im silent .. I will block him once I'm totally empowered
You’re already showing so much courage by accepting the situation even though it hurts. His calls might confuse you but don’t let them derail your progress. You’re stronger than this pain.
You’re doing an amazing job by staying strong for yourself and your baby. It’s not easy but every time you resist the urge to message him you’re taking back your power.
his choices have consequences and you deserve someone who chooses you wholeheartedly.
It’s okay to feel the pain tonight. Healing isn’t linear and some days will be harder than others. But you’re already showing so much strength by not answering his call. Keep going you’ve got this.
feeling torn between wanting to reach out and knowing I shouldn’t. It’s hard but every day you stay strong you’re building a better future for yourself and your child.
You’re incredibly strong for holding onto the no-contact rule especially with everything you’re going through. It’s okay to feel the pain it’s part of the healing process. Take it one moment at a time.
I can’t imagine how hard this must be for you, but you’re doing the right thing by prioritizing yourself and your baby. His actions show his confusion but don’t let that pull you back into the pain
he shouldn't be crossing boundaries and disturbing your healing process when he has made the choice its not fair and especially cos u r vulnerable right now. you need to protect your peace.
chances are he is as torn as you but making some choice based on something. you keep your and your baby's wellbeing above everything right now and do what u feel is good for you both. tc