this is in continuation to my yesterday and day before post. wherein I am. in no contact from last 7 days and she reached out to me day before yesterday. but I wanted her to prove this time.. please read my question below where I need ur help. >>>Hey all thanks for being so supportive.
She has been messaging me since yesterday but I just viewed them and not responded. She did say sorry that she should not have done that 7 days gap. But somehow looking into her past patterns I am/was looking for more words from her. But this morning she said" it seems you don't want to talk and that's what you wanted and would not force you " I wanted to ask you all am I doing right by keeping a distance and let her do hard work this time or me being mean and adamant?
Last updated on:2025-07-10T04:35:03+05:30
Comments (6)
It’s totally fair to want her to put in the work this time. You’re not being mean you’re just valuing yourself.
You’re doing what feels right for you and that’s what matters. If she’s serious she’ll make the effort to show it
You’re setting healthy boundaries and that’s important. If she really cares she’ll step up and show it
You’re doing the right thing by giving her space to prove herself. It’s not mean it’s about self-respect and seeing if she’s serious
It’s okay to want her to show more effort espcially if her past patterns have hurt you.
You’re not being mean you’re just setting boundaries. If she truly values you she’ll put in the effort to prove it.