Nope!! Like I told him in our last conversation 44 days ago, by keeping in contact with him, I was now hurting myself, now I'm pretty much walking into the fire of my own free will
you need to go no contact for at the very least 3 weeks. you need to accept that this chapter in your life (you and this person’s story) is over. it’s the only way you can truely move on from them. being in contact will help in short term, making you feel less empty and alone, but in the long term, it will only hurt more because it feels like you never broke up because you still feel emotionally connected to them. being in contact will start to drive you crazy as you realise that things are different and you can’t keep pretending that everything’s fine.
i hope this helped ml ❤️
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it’s doable but it’s like trying to heal while picking at the wound. Distance might help more.
it’s like walking a tightrope. Be careful with your heart you deserve clarity and peace.
Staying in contact can keep the door open but it might also hold you back.
it’s possible but it’s giving stuck in the feels vibes. Moving on might need some distance first.
Nope!! Like I told him in our last conversation 44 days ago, by keeping in contact with him, I was now hurting myself, now I'm pretty much walking into the fire of my own free will
you can try but it’s like ripping off a Band Aid super slow
it’s possible but sooo tricky. Staying in contact can make it harder to fully heal.
thankyou so much
you need to go no contact for at the very least 3 weeks. you need to accept that this chapter in your life (you and this person’s story) is over. it’s the only way you can truely move on from them. being in contact will help in short term, making you feel less empty and alone, but in the long term, it will only hurt more because it feels like you never broke up because you still feel emotionally connected to them. being in contact will start to drive you crazy as you realise that things are different and you can’t keep pretending that everything’s fine.
i hope this helped ml ❤️
thankyou so muchhhhh