We broke up three days ago and haven’t talked since but I still have so much of his stuff here and I don’t know when to reach out to send it back to him. He also has a lot of my stuff that I want back but I don’t know when to ask. Part of me doesn’t want to because that means it’s truly over which breaks my heart.
Last updated on:2025-07-25T01:59:02+05:30
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same here. even the thought of texting him about a charger made my chest ache. take your time. there’s no “right” day. 💔
i left my stuff at his place for weeks. it wasn’t just things—it was like leaving pieces of me behind.
i remember just staring at his hoodie on my chair for days. couldn’t touch it. like if i packed it up, that was it. over. real. i eventually did it sobbing on the floor. it’s okay to wait.
Going through the same thing right now, I gave him most of his stuff back (he ain't getting the clothes, lol) but just ask, maybe in the middle of the day or whenever you know he's least busy. Just keep it short and cute, "When are we exchanging things?" and if he doesn't respond, that speaks more about him than anything. I know how you feel, I keep pushing off him giving my things back because I don't want to lose him, but he's already lost. If it's truly meant to be, time has a way of uniting your paths again. Good luck, take it easy, and focus on one moment at a time.