how can I stop myself from blocking and unblocking him... like at times I feel it's okay if he remains blocked but later unblock to stalk him and also having hopes that he reaches out
Last updated on:2025-08-01T02:18:02+05:30
how can I stop myself from blocking and unblocking him
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sounds like you're in two minds. part of you wants peace the other wants a sign. both feel real.
i used to do that too. every time i unblocked him it felt like i was reopening something i wasn’t ready to let go of yet. it’s okay if you’re not ready. it took me a while.
and how did you finally overcame that?
i blocked and unblocked so many times it felt like whiplash. like i wanted him gone but still wanted him to feel it. pathetic how i kept giving him space to not care.
I struggle with it 😭 I just can't stop in it getting worse I would pay any amount to be Okey I would anything 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I find myself doing the same thing..but when he doesn't reach out I always make the mistake of sending that message I wish I could take back trying to explain things he could care less about. I'm working on trying to respect myself enough to know that I shouldn't be begging for the bare minimum from someone who clearly doesn't respect me at all. Healing sucks, it really does....but I'm thankful to have found people that know not only what I've been through but what im going through so I don't feel all alone. ❤️