I continually gave him grace time and time again when he was hurting me and ignoring my feelings but he can’t do that for me?

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I continually gave him grace time and time again when he was hurting me and ignoring my feelings but he can’t do that for me? That is what hurts the most.

Last updated on:2025-08-02T02:36:03+05:30

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Beakdino
Beakdino 7 mths ago

she’s realizing he never made space for her pain. only his.

classygirl1
classygirl1 7 mths ago

i remember thinking maybe he just didn’t know how to show up for me. but still it left me feeling so small.

Zoakoami
Zoakoami 7 mths ago

yeah same. i let shit slide that tore me up just to keep him around. he flinched at the first sign of my hurt.

WrenLoop23
WrenLoop23 7 mths ago

It's not that he can't, he's just choosing not to which hurts the most. He doesn't deserve to be in your life if he can't give you basic kindness

EasthamLover
EasthamLover 7 mths ago

Yes I am beginning to understand that but I just wanted him to want me as much as i wanted him.