Day 13 Post Break Up: Tomorrow is when we are having our closure conversation and I don’t know how to feel. I’m still devastated that our relationship is over and I miss him with every fiber of my being. I really don’t want to lose him but i also know i wasn’t being treating well. So many things he did triggered my anxiety and when i would bring it up to him he would brush it off or tell me i was being dramatic. I know this will be best in the long run it still hurts my heart so much.
Last updated on:2025-08-05T09:19:08+05:30
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the Convo can be a good summary of the good, the bad and ultimately why it didn't work out. It really helped me let go.
she knows it wasn’t working but still wants him. that part always messes with your head. logic and feelings just don’t line up.
i remember wishing the last talk would make it easier. it didn’t, but it gave me something to hold onto when i kept missing him.
he called me dramatic too. every time i cried or tried to explain how bad it felt. made me think i was the problem when it was just him being cruel.
this same thing happened to me. he would always get mad and say "are you really crying right now?" or "omg quit crying". it made me feel like my feelings were invalid. hindsight is 20/20 now. crazy how the anxiety goes away and you realize everything. we deserve better yall! keep your head held high with your standards.
Same here. Too my anxiety in that relationship. Dismissing our feelings and calling us dramatic are the only things they can do. just incapable of communicating and solving problems.
Same here. Too my anxiety in that relationship. Dismissing our feelings and calling us dramatic are the only things they can do. just incapable of communicating and solving problems.
i remember my closure talk. i was shaking literally.. what helped was writing down what i needed to say..not for him, but so i wouldn’t abandon myself in the moment. you already know it wasn’t working. let the part of you that kept trying also be the one to say goodbye. good luck
Closure convo is like a bad tasting medicine but we really need it to help us move forward so think of it that way. all the best.