I broke my no contact when he texted that he misses me. he even made me aware that the girl I'm confiding in actually wants me to forget about him because she wants him to herself. it's been a mess but I wasn't really hurt I was just dissapointed the girl had to do that. me and him are communicating, apparently he is not happy in his relationship and he regrets what he did. sadly I don't love him the same anymore🥺 there's a huge shift in my heart but I know I still deeply care about him. I just hope I don't go back and be brave enough to tell him that because now we busy playing lovey dovey yet he is still in that unhappy relationship of his
Last updated on:2025-08-18T06:18:02+05:30
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you’re already different. you’re noticing you don’t feel the same and that says a lot. even while you’re playing along, part of you is clocking the gap between what he says and what he’s doing. that gap doesn’t usually close.
i had that shift too. cared about him but couldn’t love him the way i used to. it almost felt sad, like watching someone you used to know so well turn into a stranger you still want to protect.
when my ex came back with the same “i miss you” crap while still with someone else. i hated how quick i fell back into the flirty texts. it pissed me off cause i knew he wasn’t giving up his girl, he just wanted me hanging on. i felt stupid every time i replied.
Don't let yourself get sucked back in.