allowed mild contact

he’s come back into town again and I retained the boundaries of no face to face.
he said he had a death scare and I’d never see that monster he became but seriously he burned the connection to me completely. I do hope he gets sober and better but at the same time I send him love and still don’t want him back ever again, 9 years was enough of this and enough chances

Last updated on:2025-09-10T20:36:36+05:30

Comments (10)

classygirl1
classygirl1 6 mths ago

you’re clear about the line. you can hope for his recovery but also know 9 years already showed you what being with him cost.

HappyNights860
HappyNights860 6 mths ago

it cost so much and I gave too much time already now all I can do is send love and keep moving forward on my own path 🙂

grizzamio
grizzamio 6 mths ago

i get that mix of care and done. i felt that too. i could still want good things for him but also know my life couldn’t take any more of him in it.

HappyNights860
HappyNights860 6 mths ago

definitely. I send him love but I do not want him back at all.

Nilombo
Nilombo 6 mths ago

i wasted time on mine. every time he swore he’d changed i wanted to believe it. then he’d wreck it all over again. by the end i felt stupid for letting him back so many times.

HappyNights860
HappyNights860 6 mths ago

oh trust me I am feeling this but I’m also really accepting how much it felt like a shock

Mustbequeen
Mustbequeen 6 mths ago

9 years it's a long time girl.. wait enough.. Hope you already move on and give another changes to others ❣️

HappyNights860
HappyNights860 6 mths ago

actually someone has come along and so far it’s nothing but green flags…we will see.

Mustbequeen
Mustbequeen 6 mths ago

@HappyNights860 all the best for us ❣️

HappyNights860
HappyNights860 6 mths ago

@Mustbequeen absolutely!💯