He messaged me on the weekend to try start an argument, I didn’t engage, he kept pushing, I didn’t engage, I eventually replied to descalate the situation, and gave a very emotionless reply which was put to rest pretty quickly, he then followed up with trying to ask if I would be interested in coming over to have sex. I held my boundary and said no I’m not interested. He tried to tell me he still loves me etc a big long story to encourage us to still sleep together. So I reminded him of how far I’ve come since we broke up and that I’m not interested in revisiting that, even sexually. The worst part about all of this is I broke up with him because of how lustful he was and he thinks this kind of offer is okay or appropriate now.
Last updated on:2025-09-15T22:43:02+05:30
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what stands out is how he tried to start a fight first, then flipped it into wanting sex. looks like he wanted any reaction at all, and when you didn’t give him much, he tried a different way to pull you back.
good for you in staying strong and in your truth. You deserve so much better than this. Proud of you 🥰🥰🥰
saying no and shaking after, even though i meant it. it’s hard when the same person who once held you tries to drag you back into the thing that broke you.
i hated when mine did that. like he thought a few sweet words could erase all the crap he put me through. it pissed me off how quick the “i love you” turned into a way to get me in bed.