We actually broke up over something small, I just wanted to see whether he would fight for me or not, but it turned out he didn’t. We had broken up twice before but got back together because I was the one who asked to. After one month of breaking up, he immediately had a new girlfriend. Yet before the breakup, he blamed me, saying that I had hurt him more than he had hurt me. I keep wondering if he doesn’t realize his mistakes — all this time he lied about smoking weed, but I didn’t make it a big issue, even though from the beginning I had told him I didn’t want to be with a guy who smokes. is he love me? How could he move on to another partner so quickly?
Last updated on:2025-09-24T16:39:13+05:30
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just curious, do you feel like you were heard in the relationship before the breakup? sometimes that changes how we process it.
nope i feel like he keeps blaming me
hey this is not love. it's weird attachment. Love doesnt look like this. take care of yourself, give it time. if someone loved you they would care. GE doesnt. sorry :((
it‘s so hurt to now, but thankyou :(((
try not to overthink his speed. focus on your own healing and boundaries, it helps more than chasing answers. 💔
Yes, I know that, my logic knows that, but my heart doesn’t😭
ugh i’ve been there 😩 my ex moved on crazy fast too, even tho i gave everything. it really sucks and messes with your head.