i feel so bad, ppl saying that it gets better with time are lying lol, time goes by and i’m still missing him so much everyday i don’t know what to do anymore to heal
Last updated on:2025-09-29T22:35:03+05:30
i feel so bad
i feel so bad, ppl saying that it gets better with time are lying lol, time goes by and i’m still missing him so much everyday i don’t know what to do anymore to heal
Last updated on:2025-09-29T22:35:03+05:30
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do you find yourself holding onto certain memories with him more than others? like specific moments that replay in your head?
sometimes the missing doesn’t fully go away, it just softens. journaling helped me dump those thoughts out instead of carrying them around all day.
i feel this so much. when my ex left i kept waiting for that magical “time heals” moment. months passed and i still missed him every damn day. it’s not just time, it’s what you do with it.
But missing him doesn't hurt that much anymore, It's the what if
it just is different for every person. rn you're only a month in, but eventually you'll start to see and feel changes in yourself and be able to say that you've let them go. I know some people are feeling a lot better after 1 month, 2 months or 3 months and so on, but you can't base your own progress on theirs. it matters what you do in the time and what you tell yourself. As long as it stays good, you'll begin to heal.
i know… for me it’s 4 months After Break up and it’s horrible