I know after 2years ..in a relationship .he got silent everytime we have an issue..and he sont talk to me ..sometimes it got one week silent from his side.Thosee days I begged ,I talked even he dosen't talk,I be their for him,I loved him even i didn't received single msg from him..😔Now things didnt change he dont understand me instead he got silent and just dont talk all the day randomly updating me .thats it..now im really tired of it.he always tell what he did ,understand his feelings ..but wht about me ?🙂.now he silent for month not giving me love ..and randomly updates me..I reply all the time with a simple message ..I want peace in my mind now struggling with all these emotions with him.but i cant let him go with my heart full of love.😔even now i dont believe in love..I want to slowly accept everything and let them be until time slove this.am i wrong ? ..I dont argue anymore i dont ask questions any more.But i love him .slowly acceping that one day he might be go...am i wrong ?..my emotions wrong ?🙂my actions wrong ?
Last updated on:2025-10-01T09:23:16+05:30
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have you tried telling him clearly how his silence affects you, or is it mostly staying quiet and hoping he notices? curious how you’re holding yourself in all this.
yes we were in more than one and half year relationship ..first days i told him about that very nice and lovely ,and also i begged i told him 1000times.how it hurts me how his reactions hurts me ..sometimes he talk to me but no love words.Sometimes he say sorry but only in words just say sorry it was my fault thats it.🙂so told him different ways how was it hurt me now its almost 2years .so I got silent .just because always im the one who go and explain my feelings ..Its not worth enough to tell him about me anymore.am i wrong ?
what’s helped me is giving myself permission to step back, focus on my peace first. loving someone doesn’t mean losing yourself or constant suffering. take it slow, honor your feelings.
ugh i feel this so much 😔 i was with someone every fight ended with silence. begging for attention, loving without getting the same back… it’s draining. you’re not wrong
thank you so much.😔telling i am not wrong my feelings arent wrong.
He definitely has 0 respect for you.
Your emotions are completely Valid your actions valid too. There is no effective communicating skills here.He might be going through something but it doesn't excuse treating you that way. I know you really love him, but please realise you're worth more than silence from someone who claims to be your partner. and I hope oneday you can find the strength to leave before him.
Thats right..🙂♥️I have be strong enough to leave him..