I have been in very very tough situations wherein someone whom I trusted cheated me very badly and then the guy i got engaged after this in arranged marriage set up turned out to be a literally psycho and I broke the engagement had to go through lot of embarrassment and pain. and my parents set me up with someone else he is very egoistic and im very protective of myself due to past experience. why are my friends who has seen me judging saying im playing with guys feeling while in all the cases I was the one suffering
Last updated on:2025-10-01T23:27:30+05:30
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do you think your friends realize how much you’ve actually been through, or are they just seeing the surface?
I think they are not trying to understand impact it had on me. they are judging me as if they dont know my story
people will judge when they don’t see the full story. focus on your own boundaries and healing, not their assumptions. it’s not about them understanding.
ugh yes, i’ve been there 😭 after my ex cheated, everyone assumed i was “too picky” or “playing games” but i was literally just protecting myself. it HURT. 💔
exactly. how am I wrong when all I always tried was to make others feel comfortable and loved. it will take me time to be very much in love at this stage
maybe that pain you experienced from your relationship could be a reflection of unresolved wounds. i dont know your situation but maybe try to focus on yourself and heal your fears and traumas so that you can find an even healthier relationship in the future that’ll help you grow and heal. if i was in your shoes i would focus on myself and allow love to find me naturally instead of forcing things to work out when it doesn’t. if there isn’t any possibility of breaking up (if you’re forced to stay together), keep a distance and focus on yourself try your best to be the bigger person and dont take things too personal cause most of the time its about their own wounds.