I recently went through a breakup. We ended things because of religious differences and deeper trust issues he struggled with. I was willing to fight for us even if it meant losing my family’s support. But he told me he couldn’t see a future with me… and then took it back.
Over time I felt his love and presence fading so I made the painful decision to end it. We officially broke up in August. He begged me to come back and I tried to stay strong. But when I saw him at school we ended up hooking up and agreed to be exclusive.
I was already committed and I assumed he was too especially after how hard he fought to get me back. He said it’s what he wanted. But the very next day he turned cold went to a club hooked up with another girl and blocked me on everything.
I cried for days trying to make sense of it. How could someone move on so fast from a long-term relationship? How could he betray me like that when we had just agreed to be exclusive?
I’ve tried talking to someone new just to distract myself but he’s still constantly on my mind. I feel stuck like I became unattractive to him the moment he got me back. I cry every day while he’s out partying every weekend. Everything reminds me of him music places memories.
I don’t understand how love can disappear so quickly. I want to focus on myself and move forward but he was my first love the person I gave everything to including my virginity which meant so much to me.
And now he’s discarded me like I meant nothing. It’s hard to accept how someone can be so cold and cruel… And yet I still love him.
Last updated on:2025-10-01T19:23:02+05:30
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when i was in that place, the only thing that helped even a little was cutting off every way of checking up on him. like deleting old chats, unfollowing, muting. i had to force myself to stop feeding my brain reminders of him so it could start healing. it’s slow but it works.
ugh this hit me so hard. i went through something so similar my ex begged me to come back swore he’d changed and then within a week he was with someone else. i remember feeling like i’d been used just so he could win me back then dump me again. it’s a horrible kind of heartbreak because it messes with your trust in your own judgment too.
Time will fade the pain he gave you.
yeah I going through the same thing after 28 years 12 years married and he discarded like I was trash. hes a narcissist. He lost control when u broke up with him thats why he faked it to get you to take him back to he can discard you and get the control back. narcissist are selfish and only card about themselves. He use you to.make himself feel good about himself. He only loved the way you loved him and when he got bored he moved on to the next supply that will make him feel good. He will discard her too after awhile. that man is broken. he probably has mommy or daddy issues or his last girlfriend hurt him and he never healed with thise issues so hes going to hurt every girl he will come in contact with. Just block him on everything they hate that and dont watch his social media. it will only make things worse for you. it will get easier one day at a time. you cant rush healing.