i need to stop getting hurt from him,he keeps hurting me and does it everytime the same,im in hospital and thought maybe he wanted to know about my health,so i responded and he just found a way to hurt me even in this condition,i dont want to feel hurt from him i want to just not care,how do i do that?
Last updated on:2025-10-07T02:29:02+05:30
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have you ever tried going completely no contact with him? like no replying, no checking in — just to see how much lighter you’d feel without the constant hurt?
when i got tired of the same cycle, i started writing down exactly what he did each time i felt hurt. reading it back made me stop expecting something different from him. it’s not instant, but it helps the heart catch up to what the mind already knows.
was in the hospital once too and still checked my phone hoping he’d care. he didn’t. instead, he found a way to make it about himself and left me feeling worse. it’s such a helpless feeling when you’re already down and they still twist the knife
its really hard. I am having troubles ending thing with my bf because I love him so much. But people around me tell me to break up with him that hes not good for me. Relationships are just really hard
also do i reset my no contact date or just keep it this way?
it depends on you...yesterday i called him by mistake and he called back and I ended the conversation within 2 sec saying it was a mistake...but I didn't reset my clock because that clock helps me keeping me motivated...i know if I reset it then I will talk to him and get hurt again and again
@TutuZip812 i think this progress is what keeps me motivated too i didnt reset it,it wasnt even a real conversation ill just pretend it didnt even happen