I am actually hurt because I was doing fine with no contact but he suddenly wanted to talk and asked me if I wanna be normal friends and held my hand and all. I mean I resisted so much but I also kind of give in, which was my mistake and now here I am actually feeling like I am back to square 1.
Last updated on:2025-10-13T11:00:05+05:30
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when he held your hand, was it like a comfort thing for him, or do you feel it was trying to pull you back?
it’s okay to feel pulled back, it happens. maybe journaling what you want for YOUR peace helps before deciding any contact.
i did NC for months and the second he reached out i caved too… felt like starting over and it SUCKED.
be honest with yourself. is it possible to see him as a friend? if the answer is no. it will be better to keep the No contact.
if you can be friends you need to set boundaries
I am still figuring out. I am not sure what I want to do
are you okay ? I’m here if you wanna talk
I am trying to be okay
@WooMoo509 thank you for the support. I just felt rejected used etc etc that is all. even though it is the right thing to do that is to keep him away but I wanted to be close
same I replied to his text and came back to square 1
That is so hurting