I went on a mini vacation this past weekend. I was not that excited to go because I was feeling depressed for the breakup, but I still went with friends. I did not regret it, I feel so much better now, I was still thinking about him everyday but not with pain or anxiety. I was focusing on the present, the beautiful place, the conversations with my friends. I even noticed people interested in talking to me, I felt attractive again.
I recommend doing something similar, like disconnect from your regular routine and go somewhere different and spend time with people that really cares about you.
I still would like to reconnect with my ex but now I don’t feel depressed, and I if he doesn’t come back I’m still going to be fine.
Last updated on:2025-10-30T05:16:54+05:30
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this sounds so freeing. do you think part of you still hopes he’ll come back, or are you starting to feel ready to move on for real?
I still have hope. I feel like I’m moving on in the way of not being sad all the time and being able to focus on other things. I’m still hoping to receive a message from him. but if I don’t get it I know I will be fine.
that’s actually the best kind of healing tbh — when you don’t force it, just let life slowly remind you there’s more out there. keep doing things that make you feel alive
i went on a random trip a few months after my breakup too and it honestly saved me. something about being surrounded by new faces and nature makes you breathe again
last weekend I also took a trip with my friend even though I did not want to for the same reason, during the trip there were moments when I was enjoying and did not think about my ex at all, there were some moments, especially when I was in my room, I really missed her because earlier I used to go on trip with her only, I remembered the things we used to do together. I also want my ex back in my life, but after seeing this side or hers I don't think I would be able to trust her now.