day 4 of no contact. i saw him on campus today, talking to his friends. i was trying to avoid him then i saw him again on the way back home. he was walking with his trusted female friend whom he already knew before me. they’ve been friends since last year and she has a bf so that didn’t bother me much. what bothered me was that…what were they talking about? was he telling her about what happened between us? what if he was painting me as the bad guy here? i know i was immature and acted impulsively all the time and i was truly sorry. but that doesn’t justify his actions too. being inconsistent, giving mixed signals, and pulled away when things got hard. what if he’s asking for advice to move on or something else? my heart’s aching…i ruined what could have been a good relationship, now i can’t get it back.
Last updated on:2025-10-30T07:24:13+05:30
Comments (6)
do you think part of you blames yourself more than you should? like maybe you’re holding all the guilt when it wasn’t just on you?
yeah…then again, i realized a relationship can only work if two people make it work
seeing them around is brutal, especially early in no contact. but trust me, your mind’s just creating stories because you’re still raw. try not to chase answers — focus on calming your thoughts instead of feeding them
i hope you’re right. i was doing good until i saw him. that ruined my day
seeing my ex laughing with someone right after we stopped talking and it wrecked me. i kept replaying every word wondering if he was telling her how “crazy” i was. it hurts so much when your mind starts filling in the blanks like that
i get you. he was probably telling her about all my flaws and not a single good thing. it’s crazy how they only remember the bad things and disregard what you did for them