Why it's so hard to stay friends after a breakup
So we met in person and talked it out after the awkward moment that had happened recently. We basically decided to set boundaries because it isn’t right to do intimate things when we’re friends. I
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Do they like me or just the idea of me?
When you like someone and they didn’t like you back until after they find out you like them, are the feelings mutual then? they didn’t think much at first but as you spend more time together, they
Should i move on or keep hoping for him?
the new guy and i have been on talking terms and are closer than ever, tho i can’t help but feel like he gives me signals that he might be a little interested or not at all. at times when we’re to
Why does it feel like i ruined everything?
So it’s been a while since i started liking this new guy. We’re friends. But i’ve been quite obvious with showing signs of interest towards him and idk if he feels the same way cuz one time he d
day 84
it’s been quite a while since i was last active on this app. how’s everyone doing? i think i’ve been keeping up the no contact pretty good. however i notice a strange thing just recently. so i w
so weird…
he stopped checking my profile completely i think. i don’t know why i’m feeling a wave of relief and sadness at the same time. i should be glad that he’s not monitoring my actions anymore but i
geniune question
i don’t think about him as much anymore but i still somehow look for signs of him if he views my story. it’s the muscle memory. i’m trying to do less. why is it that the dumpers lurk around yo
any idea?
it’s day 69 and i still catch myself looking for signs of his views. how do i stop this? like genuinely. i keep relapsing and it’s so hard not to. today i found out that he unfollowed some account
do i miss the memories or him
i haven’t been checking his socials for the past few days until today. i checked his profile and saw that his following went down which is unusual because he’s always active on instagram following
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any ideas
day 50 of no contact. i don’t have plans to reach out just because it’s christmas. finals are over and everyone’s going back home for christmas and new year’s, including him. my family doesn
I did it, is it right?
after all this time i’ve finally deleted our photos together. i dont know how i did it but i did it without hesitation. i might or might not regret it later but i know for a fact that if i never did
idk why i’m still pissed
it’s been 46 days of no contact. i thought i’d finally let go of the thought of checking his socials but i did it again. i checked his instagram and saw his following went up by 1. i can’t tell
i’m confused
just days ago i was disappointed to see him change his bio to a different song other than our song because it was giving off “moving on and replacing you with someone else” vibes. then just today
disappointed,not surprised
i thought i was doing better at not checking anymore but the urge kicks in sometimes. so i checked his instagram today and his following+follower went up by 2. i’m going to protect my peace by not d
do they come back
2 weeks of no contact. so i noticed that he went completely silent just like me. he stopped checking my profile. it was the only last thread of connection and it’s gone now. i feel disappointed. do
already regretting this
i’m on my way back to my home country. along the way my heart’s been aching because i feel like i’m leaving him behind wholly, as if he never existed to begin with. but i know i need this. i nee
what is he trying to do
so i checked his instagram and saw his following went up by 1. he followed back the girl that used to like him. she didn’t even follow him back lol. is he in the distraction phase? i thought it’d
do i move on?
when they say stuff like we can’t be together because we’re not compatible, we love and function differently, and that they need to grow on their own etc; do they come back or are they gone for g
has he moved on?
ever since i saw him for 3 days straight in a row, i haven’t seen him since. he stopped checking my profile 2 days ago and suddenly went silent. no reposts, no new follows, just dead silence remains
i blocked him
so i blocked him on instagram only just the other day because i find myself checking his profile every day and it messes with my head. i have him unblocked on other apps. i’m curious to ask that is
why do they do this
back to 1 week of no contact. when he said he doesn’t want to rush into giving me an answer to us trying again why is he still holding on then? he’d like to stay as friends but i told him i can’
one-sided?
it’s crazy how he’d say that we’re not compatible instead of trying to change. i’ve been trying to change hoping for possible reconnection later in the future but it seems like he’s given up
do you stay as friends after the breakup
a day ago when i texted him to get clarity, he said stuff like “the chemistry isn’t the same anymore” and we could still be there for each other if we stay as friends because right now he doesn
it’s over
yesterday i texted him to get clarity out of him and set boundaries cuz i don’t want to repeat the cycle. i told him that if he wants to reconnect, it has to be consistent and with effort. he said w
should i move on
i regret for giving him what he wanted when he expressed his feelings out of emotional impulse - reassurance. i thought i did the right thing by showing that i care but that backfired. once he got wha
disappointed but not surprised
he broke no contact 4 days ago and he asked to meet up this friday. this evening, he texted me saying that it might be difficult because he’s caught a flu since yesterday. he said he’ll tell me wh