So it’s been a while since i started liking this new guy. We’re friends. But i’ve been quite obvious with showing signs of interest towards him and idk if he feels the same way cuz one time he does, then the next he doesn’t. Things recently got awkward after that one thing happened the other day. We were just texting back and forth, until midnight. There was a delay so i thought he must have gone to sleep and so i did. Then i noticed he did in fact reply. And texted again 2 hours later, asking if i wanted to go to the library with him. I only got to reply in the morning and to make it worse, i had class and work that day so i declined it. He replied dryly. Up until now, i can’t but feel like i’ve made the worst mistake of my life. The ironic thing is i didn’t even do it intentionally and i feel like things took a drastic turn. He’s probably avoiding me cuz he wouldn’t even come over and talk to me now. i feel stupid. i should’ve been more communicative
Last updated on:2026-05-27T07:02:44+05:30
Comments (6)
He sounds a little touchy. Maybe he's insecure. Wait a while and try making contact, maybe just coffee, a quick lunch, BUt CHECK YOUR SCHEDULE FIRST. GOOD LUCK
If someone can go to sleep at night fine knowing you're not okay and on bad terms with you, then they 110% don't give a shit about you.
i honestly think if someone truly likes you, one declined library hangout isn’t enough to kill it.
do you think maybe you’re carrying more blame than you deserve here
replaying one tiny interaction over and over like i ruined everything forever. one missed moment can feel massive when you already like someone that much
You cant mess up something that is destined for you. Give it time, if he likes you, he'll come around again