He hurt me for the last time this time last week when I bumped into him. Since then I've been processing the pain but have come up with some realisations. At first because he had got a haircut (he had
ok so several times I've said this will be the last time. but I promise!!! its actually the last time I reset no contact. Tonight we bumped into each other at a gig. We said a polite hello and he sai
I think im ready to move on, but im not the kind of person who feels attraction easily. On average I'd find someone every 2 years. Whether we date for a couple of weeks or a couple of months, I've nev
All my hardest work came after the break up. During this first round of no contact, I did all my healing. I found out where I went wrong in all my previous relationships, I found out where my anxious
We lasted about 2 months into no contact when he reached out. I was so happy I never reached out first. We attend the same music events so I've always known I'd bump into him every now and again. We
Its been 88 days since we broke up. my days aren't filled with anxiety like before. My nervous system has settled, I have my appetite back, I sleep better. We've both broken no contact in an attempt
My ex reached out about a week ago. Said it would be nice to catch up and hes been thinking of me. It made me so happy to win the no contact. On the weekend was the last thing tying myself to him. The
I made it to 53 days! im very proud of what I've accomplished in that time in terms of self discovery and enriching my life without him. Today I did a breathwork workshop. At about 730am this morning
I feel like the longer im in NC, the harder its getting not to reach out. My nervous system has settled, im at peace with the breakup, im filling my time with things I wanted to do with him, but I get
During a night out, i bumped into someone I knew from way before. He told me I looked really good. It was the night I bumped into my ex, the first time we saw each other since the breakup. I concentra
I think im doing well in my healing journey. I spend time alone in nature, I go for long walks, I went back to the gym. I reach out to friends i havent spoken to for ages. I have moments of pure joy.
Originally our relationship was never meant to work - there is a large age gap and distance (he lives 3.5hrs away). But there was a deep connection we both couldn't ignore. We only got to see each oth