it’s crazy how he’d say that we’re not compatible instead of trying to change. i’ve been trying to change hoping for possible reconnection later in the future but it seems like he’s given up already. i feel bad for causing so many problems during the relationship but he’d always initiate a breakup or pulled away when things got hard. it’s hard but i have to accept that we’re not emotionally aligned and let go. i hope i can heal from this soon enough…
Last updated on:2025-10-30T14:22:15+05:30
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when he’d say you weren’t compatible, did he ever explain what he meant? or was it just his way of avoiding responsibility for the effort?
he said i was too “emotional” and he was logical. could be his way of avoiding too since he always leaves when things get hard
Oh waw it feels good to be understood. He did exactly the same thing. We had our issues of course, but nothing major, mostly little/short fights on petty subjects. I decided that I wanted that to change and that I will let go of thing if it doesn't really matter, he chose to see that as incompatibility and broke up without a warning.
It was a waking call anyway: I don't think our incompatibility was our fights, but it was our vision of love. I wanted to compromise and adapt because I wanted him but, despite saying he is in live, he is not willing to budge on anything to preserve our love and our relationship.
if he wanted to change, he would. i’m sorry that happened to you. you deserve someone who would choose you and change for you🍀
@Shiro As you do 🌸
it’s tough when you’re the only one trying to make it work. i’ve learned that healing starts the moment you stop trying to earn their effort. it’s okay to let go, even if it hurts right now
right. i learned that you can’t force someone to change if they don’t want to. i hope everything gets better for you🍀
my ex used to say the same thing — “we’re just not compatible right after i’d spend weeks trying to fix things. it messes with your head. i get that ache of still hoping though