It feels so surreal. I've been with him for 3 years, we had been celebrating our anniversary just 2 days ago. Deep down I know he never really cared enough about me. I miss the cuddles, the laughs and the kisses, but not the manipulation, the avoidance when something isn't right, the fake promises to change something. I know this is better for me, but I miss talking to him, sending him funny pictures, telling him about my day. My life feels so empty now that he isn't in it. I hope it will get better soon
Last updated on:2025-11-04T08:12:03+05:30
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have you talked to anyone about how you’re feeling lately? like a friend or even journaling it out? sometimes saying it out loud helps quiet the noise a bit.
it’s okay to miss him and still know you made the right choice. when i felt that ache, i started writing down every moment i almost ignored the red flags. helped me remember why i had to walk away.
my last relationship was it ended right after our anniversary too. i missed the small things way more than i missed him. it took time, but that emptiness slowly faded
oh girl that sucks so much i get it. 3 years is a long time to be with someone, but if he wouldn't change for you the first time, you already know he's not going to again. but ik that doesn't make it hurt any less, but honestly just give it time. you might not want to stop feeling bad, because in a way you feel like you have to feel bad or you have to hold on to the memory of him because it's the last thing you really still hold. but trust me when i say with time it gets better. it's slowly getting better for me and i know it will for you too xx