when they say stuff like we can’t be together because we’re not compatible, we love and function differently, and that they need to grow on their own etc;
do they come back or are they gone for good?
Last updated on:2025-11-06T17:05:23+05:30
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when they said that, did it feel like an honest realization… or more like an excuse to leave without being the bad guy?
i have a feeling that’s the case because he offered friendship before that and i said i can’t so this is how it turned out in the end
@Shiro she said exactly the same things and tbh I am very pessimistic about this. We have become strangers because I cannot accept her as a friend, especially when she started seeing another guy shortly after we broke up. i'm still hoping she'll be back but I can't look sad forever. now there is so much emotion going on inside my head (love, longing, anger, sadness, anxiety, fear)
bro I'll tell you, this is what exactly happened with me .....
But Waiting for them to ComeBack is not good.... Instead ComeBack for Yourself be focused on yourself so even if they somehow even Came they'll regret loosing you at first & will try by themselves to get back.....
& Hold on,
if they didn't so don't overthink ... the one who's perfect for you will see the best of you & they'll not let you loose ...
SO it's a W/W, if you looked after yourself & got better for yourself....
Cheers bro We'll get it through
well I just noticed that you're a girl, but chill I call all my female frds bro as well.....
you move on but for yourself with love for yourself and for them, the most mature thing you can do is love them and let them go, perhaps you may grow into someone stronger and better and they night realise who you are and want that back by then you will be someone else and that will be up to you if not you will still have that strength to live for you
sometimes they mean it, sometimes it’s their way of softening a goodbye. either way, don’t wait around. people who truly want to grow with you, come back ready not just with words, but with changed behavior.
“we love differently, i need to find myself.” i held onto hope for months thinking he’d come back once he “grew.” he didn’t. but i did. and that’s what really shifted everything for me.
it’s a different kind of pain when they gave no closure or clarity, just walked away silently