We didn’t break up. I felt we were going a breakup if he continues this kind of communication. We used to have a good relationship more than 1 year. Now everything sucks in long distance. He said things that makes me feel not seen, not heard and asking myself is he the same person I am in love with? I am not sure but I decided to stop communication to preserve the chance of making up everything before he ruins with his messages.
So am I silly that still waiting him to be nice with me? When someone make mistakes to you can they fully fix themselves after that? Does he need a second chance
Last updated on:2025-11-18T05:35:04+05:30
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when his messages started hurting you, was it out of stress and distance or did it feel like a shift in how he sees you?
when i’ve been unsure like this, stepping back helped me breathe and see things clearer. people can fix things if they actually want to, but it usually shows in their actions, not promises. waiting only feels worth it when your heart isn’t being crushed in the process.
i’ve been in a long distance thing where the communication slowly turned into… something i didn’t even recognize. i remember staring at my phone like “who is this person?” it’s such a lonely kind of hurt when you still love them but their words make you feel invisible. you’re not silly for wanting the version of him you fell for. i wanted that too.
you’re not wrong for wanting things to be different. give him a chance if it doesn’t involve cheating. but if he doesn’t change, maybe give each other space then see if it’s worth keeping the relationship