what should I do if I’m trying to stay nc but he is always reaching out? I have hope to get back together but we n es time apart and he just keeps coming back like every once a week then desapears again.
Last updated on:2025-11-18T04:23:15+05:30
what should I do?
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when he reaches out, what does he actually say. like is he checking in for you or just trying to keep a door open for himself?
I’m Not sure he confuses me so much. He usually reached out to know how I’ve been doing but he also says stuff like just know I’m always here for you and this time invites me to get coffee so Idk what to think
what usually helps me is asking myself how i feel after i talk to them. like do i feel calmer or do i feel sick and anxious again. that answer usually tells me what i need to do with the contact.
my ex used to pop in just enough to keep me hooked then disappear when it actually mattered. that on and off contact messed with my head way more than the breakup itself. i get why you’re confused… that push pull is a whole different kind of heartbreak
I wish my ex would call and care about me but it's like he has forgotten, who I am after a fifteen and a half year relationship
set your boundaries. be direct telling him that you won’t respond anymore if he keeps disappearing. that’s hurting you. and you need clarity on his intentions. if he keeps doing it block him.