I'm constantly fighting the urge to talk to him, I know if I do we will fight argue I'll be hurt and cry for hours but still I crave him. i want him to love me but his love comes with a price and insults.
Last updated on:2025-11-22T12:45:03+05:30
I'm constantly fighting the urge to talk to him, I know if I do we will fight argue I'll be hurt and cry for hours but still I cra
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when you say his love comes with a price, what’s the part that stings you the most?
Price is actually a condition he has put upon me to satisfy some of his needs, I am unable to, for love I have to do it. now I asked him to leave respectfully if I'm not fulfilling but he is adamant on staying and told me he won't love me I have to stay without care or anything but then he suddenly acts loving also..he keeps changing his statements and behaviour every day and is not leaving me. I also feel for him that's why I'm unable to leave, this is all so confusing to me.
that’s not love if there’s only insults and fights. maybe is codependency. love should feel good.
yes it does feel like codependency, i can't feel love anymore.
when i get stuck in that loop, i usually pick one tiny thing to do instead of calling. like walking outside or texting a friend. it never fixes everything, it just stops me from reopening the same wound.
that's a great advice, will try to do this.
girl if you think it’ll just end up with an argument it’s not worth reaching out. please protect your peace by going no contact. the more you chase him the more it’ll push him away. once you go silent that’s when he feels the loss and regrets it. even if he doesn’t, you dodged a bullet and there’s someone better out there who you don’t need to chase to be loved
whenever I ignore him completely, he does reach out to me says sorry but then again it gets hurtful in the end always 🫥
i used to crave someone who only loved me when it suited him, and every time i reached out i’d end up crying on the bathroom floor. it took me forever to admit that wanting him hurt worse than losing him. you’re not crazy for feeling this, it’s that pull you get from someone who treated you like a maybe.
I'm sorry you went through this and I can totally relate I have faced all this too but still I can't stop that urge to contact but now I'll genuinely try to stop. it only hurts me I feel so miserable I can't tell.