why do i feel sad

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it’s only 3 days away until it hits a 4-week mark. i don’t know how it happened but i stopped thinking about him on a random day. it’s like my memory of him was completely wiped. i can’t remember his face, his voice, and his scent anymore. i can’t tell if i’ve moved on. because my heart doesn’t ache and i don’t feel anxious when he crosses my mind. part of me is relieved that i’m slowly healing. but part of me is really sad that i’m slowly forgetting him. i’m allowed to live my life without him in it but i didn’t want to lose him….why does it have to be this way?

Last updated on:2025-12-03T10:08:12+05:30

Comments (6)

fadinaway
fadinaway 3 mths ago

when you think about him now, is it the person you miss or the version of your life you imagined with him?

Shiro
Shiro 3 mths ago

honestly both. i’ve never felt so close and comfortable with anyone before him

4get2love
4get2love 3 mths ago

honestly, i’ve learned that those “blank spots” are just your brain protecting you. let it do its thing. you don’t have to label it as moving on or not. just let yourself feel whatever shows up.

Simnga
Simnga 3 mths ago

one morning i woke up and the grip my ex had on my mind was just… gone. it felt like relief and grief at the same time. forgetting hurt in its own weird way

dj11
dj11 3 mths ago

its ok u have rights to move on, and dont wish to wait for him to come back , once a chapter is closed close it forever.wish best for him and go ahead in ur life.

nike
nike 3 mths ago

u detached also u hoping he not forget u u hope he reach out u feel numb zero I understand I feel u too I'm sad this week idk why even I dream her but not feel anything not miss think then yesterday I'm miss think wan check her account I stop slap myself say dnt do it u about detached heal move on. I pray she reach me out December or goodbye forever move on . wish u not sad deatch heal he back wish u best