update: he messaged me after waking up and I couldn't sleep all night because of him like man legit asked for a chance to explain and fcking slept leaving me hanging on the cliff. and I just ignored him I didn't see any of his texts. I didn't replied to him. and I'm not planning to even reply at all.
Last updated on:2025-12-11T06:07:53+05:30
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what was he supposed to “explain” anyway? like what was the thing he dropped on you before disappearing?
he wanted to explain things that went wrong but he doesn't not find his fault in any of it
the only thing i’ve learned is to not rush myself when i’m angry or hurt. if ignoring him is helping you breathe today, keep doing that. you don’t owe him instant access just because he finally woke up.
my ex used to do that too, say “i wanna talk” then vanish and knock out like nothing happened, while i’d be up all night spiraling. it messed with my head so bad. him texting you after HIS good sleep while you barely held it together… yeah, i’ve lived that imbalance. you ignoring him right now makes total sense. that silence hits different when someone’s used to you being available