I honestly don’t know how to process all of this. I was with my girl for four years four years filled with love trust plans and everything in between. Six months ago we broke up and it crushed me completely. I stayed single stayed loyal and held onto hope believing it was just a storm we’d weather and eventually find our way back to each other.
To my surprise she quickly jumped into a situationship with another guy almost like she was trying to replace me overnight. Now that it’s fallen apart she’s come back saying I never stopped loving you mi amor. If there’s a way to fix this I’m all ears. She sounded emotional apologizing admitting she made a mistake and reminding me that I’m the one she truly loves always and forever a quote we once adopted while watching The Originals together.
Meanwhile I’m torn. Part of me still loves her deeply but another part feels betrayed that she needed someone else to forget about me. It hurts it confuses me and it feels unfair. Even though we were broken up when she went to him the thought of it lingers and I can’t get it out of my head.
Has anyone ever taken their ex back after they tried moving on and failed? Did it actually work? Or am I just setting myself up for an even worse heartbreak than the first one? I need to find a way to align my head and my heart right now they’re at war with each other nonstop.
Last updated on:2025-12-10T17:12:03+05:30
Comments (5)
Did she miss you while this was happening?
Just remember she helped him put it back in when it slipped out.
stay strong it will always be in the back of ur mind believe me I know first hand
Everyone process the pain differently. Maybe she got in that relationship bc she was so sad that she thought it would help her, but she knew that it wouldn’t replace you…I think she made a huge mistake, but in the end she understood that it was a mistake. She chose you. Idk if you should forgive her immediately, but if ur relashionship was perfect and nobody cheated or was disrespectful, maybe she can have a chance. But if you think that you can move on from her and you’ll be better without her then don’t give her a chance.
It’s your decision in the end, but think about the future: do you picture your life with her? Or do you dough it…
People say that even if they come back nothing changes, that they don’t miss you or love you enough otherwise they would have never tried to replace you in the first place, that they would have come back and sooner. But I also know that in your heart you just love her so much and you hope things could go differently this time…. My heart would tell you to go back to her, because that’s what I’d do if it happened to me, but my head would tell you absolutely not. Keep healing and find someone that would fight for you and love you unconditionally.