at what point do you know, that it's over

When you feel indifferent. Not love, not hate, indifference.

Wow it's over

do you feel like you’re still hoping they’ll come back, or are you more scared of what letting go actually looks like for you?

him ghosting me after he told me he wanted to try again. I got pissed and blocked him on everything and now we haven't talked for over 3 months

seeing them and not feeling the same fast heartbeat

usually i know it’s over when the idea of going back feels more painful than the idea of letting go. it’s not dramatic, just this quiet “yeah… i can’t do that again.”

when they feel more like a distant friend or a stranger

i asked myself this same question for months. for me it was that moment when the hope stopped feeling warm and started feeling heavy. like i wasn’t waiting for love anymore, i was just hurting myself by holding on. it’s such a weird grief.

when it doesn’t hurt anymore at the mention of their name